Your intelligence, education, qualification, looks & skills are worth nothing if your character is not in sync with life. To earn the legitimacy of being a valuable asset to your work & society, you need to keep on being a TRUTHFUL YOU at every phase of life.
When you wanna know what’s your worth, Try starting from a ZERO once again.
Fake people are like mannequins, yes they have a figure & expression worth nothing.
I have taken little bit inspiration & experience on why/where/how/what I went through my life!!
Sneakers, joggers, hoodie/round neck t-shirt, little bit skating, gym & pizza, because I am still the same 13 street smart assholic kid.
Cheesecake, roasted lemon pepper chicken barbecue & wine with blue crab caviar nachos, because I turn classy after 9pm twice in a week.
Business enthusiast, data analytics & PhD, because I never want to stop learning.
Boots, boobs, beaches, bitches, shopping, better flight/hotel deals, because I am one self-made INDEPENDENT DICK & I met none who’s worth of my LOVE or LOYALITY.
Doesn’t matter you are in a relationship or not, there is always a journey which is just yours. Your career path, your business goals, your own hobbies; these are all yours which make you a better beautiful you.
Now if your love/relationship isn’t helping you grow towards a better you, then stop lying to yourself. We enter relationships with tons of TRUTH & LOYALITY to become a better version of ourselves. We do it for our own happiness. The other person is there for a push. We do the same for them as well. Emotional availability speaks when words fall short.
Till you discover your worth, your goals & life purpose; you can’t be in a relationship with anyone.
Till the time there is a 1 in front of your age number, it’s all about learning, understanding your worth & what/whom you deserve. When it swaps to 2something, it’s about building a secure tomorrow. When it’s 3something, hopefully you are habituated to certain kind of a comfortable lifestyle & you are ready to decide whether/how long you need to work to be what you want to be.
That’s how life needs to be.
Know your value, you all have experienced something called BEST in your past. Don’t settle for less. Even you don’t know you always have something to cherish. That someone in your life set a GOLD STANDARD at some point, nobody’s gonna beat that.
Yes to constant/consistent attention/care/admiration, FUCK instant GRATIFICATION.
I don’t want anything quickly. I want to invest myself & I want to see whether the opposite site is able to match my energy. If anything fails, I back out & vice versa. Partnership in relationship & Business, both are almost the same. Either people join to nurture/grow with each other, or they fail to see the bigger picture & fuck off after backstabbing with a tiny gain. Either ways don’t forget you stood the test of time, GAIN is yours & the WINNER is you.