“Male ego” is a thing apparently. Most men like to think & believe they are superior to other men. To be honest there is no fun in that. Keep working towards becoming a better version of yourself, being superior to your previous self should be the goal.
Certain times in life you are the only problem & you are the only solution to that.
Doesn’t matter you are in a relationship or not, there is always a journey which is just yours. Your career path, your business goals, your own hobbies; these are all yours which make you a better beautiful you.
Now if your love/relationship isn’t helping you grow towards a better you, then stop lying to yourself. We enter relationships with tons of TRUTH & LOYALITY to become a better version of ourselves. We do it for our own happiness. The other person is there for a push. We do the same for them as well. Emotional availability speaks when words fall short.
Till you discover your worth, your goals & life purpose; you can’t be in a relationship with anyone.
There is nothing called white or black lie. Lie is a Lie & Liars can’t prove anything right. You pollute your core the moment you lie, from where you can’t spread anything positive. That’s one reason liars are indecisive about everything from LIFE to LOVE. They leave themselves juggling between situations or cycles. You will always mark a similar pattern of behaviour in a liar.
Saying it with own experience. The biggest gift I have given myself is MY LITTLE TRUTH. Yes it made me bitter and tough, but I learnt how to stand. If I do anything wrong in my life, I say it proudly before someone else barks about it & face the consequences. If you see anything right/good in me, keep it to yourself or say it to woo me. Either ways, appreciation should only come from other side. We need to keep on cleaning our mess & become a better version of self. Take this one tiny thing from me, Be a true you.
Let that love be true and real.
Your love should help each other grow better and big. If no, FUCK IT & learn to evolve or move on.
You all deserve this goodness..😘
Never be jealous/cruel of someone’s success or lifestyle. The only moment you spit venom against someone in your heart is when you already know you can’t be as good as them.
Be the true best version of yourself..💪