Most people fail to walk their TRUTH, fail to be true to self and others at the same time. Being honest never comes easy, but it’s easier than any kind of lie/deceit or hiding something. This is what sets a truthful person apart from random crowd. TRUTHFUL OR A HONEST PERSON, i am talking about.
They own up to their mistakes. Honest people have all kinds of amazing traits, but obviously no one is perfect. Everyone makes mistakes, but what sets honest people apart is their willingness to take responsibility and apologize when they mess up. You’ve probably encountered someone who’s bad at saying sorry. Instead of owning up to their mistakes they’ll make excuses or apologize that you experience negative feelings, not that they did something wrong. Honest people are different. Those with integrity seek the truth, even if the truth exposes them for doing something wrong. They will swallow their pride and their ego for the sake of an authentic and sincere apology. Telling the truth doesn’t come naturally. Defense mechanisms, like blame projection and deceit are much easier alternatives in the moment, but avoiding responsibility only creates more trouble.
Hopefully this will help you identify if you are someone honest or someone in your life is truly honest. It might also make you realize that perhaps you’re not as honest as you thought. Nevertheless we should all pursue truth, even when it seems daunting and difficult. The world needs more honesty. If you lie about who you are or about someone else, what actually happened or how you feel, you’ll only dig yourself deeper into a problem of your own creation. The choice is yours. Be honest or lie, what you choose will impact your life immensely.
People who follow a truthful life with utmost honesty are not interested in being popular. Honest people are entirely disinterested in winning the admiration of the masses. They don’t desire to be seen as the most attractive, most celebrated or most interesting person around because let’s be honest it probably isn’t true on a longer run. When honest people do good they do it because they want to, not because they need leverage. They’re more interested in self growth than winning a popularity contest.
Those who are honest with the world know they are worthy. They know who they are and they aren’t ashamed of it even when other people would be.
A relationship is never about a right or wrong person. We encounter both good and bad people in our life. But choices depend on our taste to pick & choose with whom we can vibe. Sometimes we even allow & entertain something/someone that never aligns with our values. All of these till we understand, it’s nothing but getting along with someone’s goodness & consistent approach. Actually consistent approach towards life in general.
Back to first line once again; it’s not about right or wrong, it’s all about whether someone is TRUTHFUL no matter being good or bad and whether that person is consistent!! A TRUTHFUL CONSISTENT person is a lifelong turn on.
When friends say “Tap you are such an outrageous arrogant loud lively person”, earlier I used to get super confused with WTF I just heard!! But now I am fully clear what does that mean. It’s like telling someone “I like the way you are & kinda afraid of you as well”. My reaction to that!? As if I have time to give a shit! The fuckers who say that are stuck to me since eternity. I don’t need approval from my friends, I already know & I have digested how terrible or horrible I am.
You can judge me all you want. At the end my reality remains the same since forever. I am TRUTHFUL out of choice. HAPPY with right MOTIVE. RUDE because of past people. SUCCESSFUL upto certain extent because of my DISCIPLINE. OUTGOING EXTROVERT out of my habits & hobbies.
When somebody asks me “Why aren’t you in a relationship?”. My IDGAF answer for random people is, because I never wanted one.
My answer for friends is little different: I have met/dated ton of beautiful girls in my past, but never found a beautiful person. I can’t deny every single girl i met were amazing for different reasons. And yes i am the one who is spoiled with unnecessary attention or it’s as easy as “I am the one who’s not worth it”. Not proud of my past equations, yet I am fine with both because I love my independent status. You can call it single.
Soon or sooner I wanna change it to something better. I never hide things.ZK😍 I love it when people are grounded by nature & every independent person has a story of hustle which starts beyond comfort zone. That’s it. A truthful consistent independent person who values her values & who understands value of MONEY because we live in a world which is driven by material growth, that’s all i can demand from my partner. First one is sorted, next one is still a disputed territory that i will answer some other day.
A happy crazy soothing madness of TRUTHFUL TOGETHERNESS is heaven on earth.
(I am talking to you my bitch.)
I know I am rude, ruthless, ambitious, enthusiastic, self-invested, truthful & desirable. I use & misuse every single word I mentioned. In my dictionary, there are no other emotions exist which can overpower TRUTH. You see LIAR written, you read & pronounce it as liar. I see/read/pronounce nothing but an INSECT in it, I said I am ruthless.
Your intelligence, education, qualification, looks & skills are worth nothing if your character is not in sync with life. To earn the legitimacy of being a valuable asset to your work & society, you need to keep on being a TRUTHFUL YOU at every phase of life.
Heavier burden, wild dreams, bigger goals, reliable roles & responsibilities, all require a broader shoulder with logic driven mildly emotional truthful mindset.
When you are giving something, do it with a truthful heart without expecting anything in return.