One can’t be present if they are looking backwards, or for that matter forward. This is a tricky one to explain because it seems to imply that past and future don’t matter, somewhat seeming to contradict our vision for a better tomorrow. But that’s not really true. Let’s look at it like, as humans we often have the tendency to get caught up in thoughts about past achievements & failures. And sometimes, it’s living in our dreams of future that hinder us from seeing the potential of present. We tend to forget that present counts much more than the past or the future. Actually the steps that you take in the present are more important than the memories of the past & dreams of the future.
You need to deal with the past & the future while living in present. Take your sweet time and go back to the past once in a while to collect necessary lesson, then come back and live in your present without reliving those same low points of life. Use lessons from the past and also use dreams of a grand future to drive yourself to take the necessary steps that’s required right right now. We all might have dealt with bad memories and bad experiences in our past, that mustn’t stop us from seeing the light of a beautiful tomorrow. I always say this “TOMORROW IS ALWAYS AN UPGRADE OF TODAY”.
Today’s wounded warrior is tomorrow’s improved & enhanced warrior.
Doesn’t matter whether you broke up with someone or you are trying to woo someone, if you are sure about approaching LOVE “MAKE SURE YOUR SINGLEHOOD IS PROVEN FOR SOME MONTHS AT LEAST, PAST PEOPLE HOLD YOU BACK FROM A PROSPEROUS FUTURE“. A clean and fully healed heart makes things easier for both to move ahead together towards a successful tomorrow.
Losing sounds uncomfortable, but every setback is a setup somehow for a better tomorrow.
Don’t read/follow someone’s success story if you want to build a stronger stable business. Make sure you watch a story of failure everyday & eliminate that in you one by one. You will fail & that’s gonna push you towards a better tomorrow.
Your TOMORROW is screaming at you; Relax, Recover, Rejuvenate, Rectify & Rise.
How I see LOVE is purely selfish!
If I want you in my life; I want to see you smile & happy, I want you to be nothing but TRUE, I want to give you a better tomorrow, I want to cuddle/kiss/love/bang/pamper/spoil/tease/tickle/squeeze/spank you, I want to see you by my side next morning everyday; all for pure selfish reasons which involves that togetherness we share which will always be majorly mine. And one major requirement: our relationship must help our bank account grow while we are growing up stronger together. My LOVE towards you will be my HAPPINESS. My LOVE will always remain selfish.
I want your full attention on me, easy for you because I am either a lusty funny 16 in boxer shorts or horny hothead hunk in boxer shorts whenever I am around familiar friendly faces. Don’t think about getting a glimpse of me outside home, you will fail & now a days even I fail to deal with some unnecessary attention. My age; Yes I am 16 since I am 16. I don’t want you to let me move my eyes off you, start working on that booty. You will figure out ways to be honest & happening around me, I am sure you don’t like bullshit because I don’t. Can’t change all these in me, not ready to negotiate. Haven’t found the one who can understand this.
Yeah airline upgrades are fascinating. But I love taking roadtrips into the wild & mountainous terrains. So if you can’t be a good pillion behind me on my bike, I will ditch you without a second thought. We can switch to something with 4wheels & a steering wheel if the distance is more than 7-800 kilometres, see I am generous+kind. If you feel that’s too much, you definitely need to know me more “I am a way bigger better rampant asshole“.
So why am I typing so many things related to LOVE now a days when I am that person who always ran away from it? Answer: whoever approaches me with right intentions & TRUTH in heart, this is your homework. Just making it easy for you, everything that’s BAD will work except LIES. I will just lay down & relax, all work is yours till you earn me. I am an amateur in this department. This word “LOVE” packs tons of respect, promise & childlike innocence in my eyes. Anyday you hear it from me in between those 3 words, please don’t lose it. I am not good with second chances. Yes I am seriously serious about all.
I am a small person in front of my TRUTH, slowly but surely somehow I am becoming as big as it is. A better me is tomorrow’s demand from myself.
Some people pretend as if they care, just to watch you struggle from the front row seat. Helping hands are those who reach you & push you towards a better tomorrow.
TRUTH is like a lifestyle choice. It’s not an option, doesn’t matter you see anything good or bad in you or someone else. Speak & accept it. Embrace it whole heartedly, your whole body-mind-soul will start working towards a better tomorrow without enough efforts.