Doesn’t matter whether you broke up with someone or you are trying to woo someone, if you are sure about approaching LOVE “MAKE SURE YOUR SINGLEHOOD IS PROVEN FOR SOME MONTHS AT LEAST, PAST PEOPLE HOLD YOU BACK FROM A PROSPEROUS FUTURE“. A clean and fully healed heart makes things easier for both to move ahead together towards a successful tomorrow.
If you feel neglected/rejected by me; please stop thinking that way, it’s just that I have no time for bullshit.
LOVE or HATE, both are a 2 way interaction. I can’t fight. That’s why I don’t hate, I just move on from any kinda mess silently.
Stop victimising yourself. Cut through the crap. Be bold enough to be confident & stand up. Your own mental prison mustn’t push you down.
Doesn’t matter what’s your state of mind right now, learn to face your truth & responsibilities. We need to move forward in life always, don’t lapse it.
One tiny tip; do something for your financial stability. That’s gonna lift you higher on a longer run. Progress is the only pattern of life. Don’t smash your growth by holding yourself back in any negativity.
Indecisiveness causes insecurities. Insecurities cause self-doubt. You start expecting the worst, allowing yourself to take every wrong step & sabotage own growth in life.
Find a motive to live. Set a goal. Take decisions: stay stuck to it. If you can’t find reasons behind your actions/words/moves, don’t do it because they are bullshit. Be True to yourself first, everyone will acknowledge with time. Investment in self growth gratifies self-respect and self-esteem. Be a TRUE you.
Whenever people ask me about something called “LOVE” now a days. I just tell them two words, “Empathy & Consistency”. If a person lacks both, you certainly not need to move on from them. You just need to keep walking on moving forward. Keep on walking, the other person knows they can push you back. Be in a high vibration, don’t open yourself to pain & vulnerability.
It’s you who needs to learn lessons, don’t let other person’s negativity distract your growth. You treat people with kindness, love, care, attention & admiration. You don’t get that always back & in fact a lot of times you don’t. That openness can invite people to abuse you.
First protect yourself while still maintaining a open heart & mind, which can be a very challenging lesson. You don’t need someone perfect, you just need someone who can win you.