There is nothing like “SETTLE DOWN” for something. And never settle for mediocre. Self-assured people have a vision of what they want and they go for it. Let’s say CONFIDENT PEOPLE for better understanding. They don’t hold back & allow their fears to keep them from trying. They push themselves to go above and beyond. They set the bar high for themselves and demand excellence. They know they are as deserving of the best in both work and life.
Confidence is SEXY & you are the most expensive person in your life. People often forget to look at mirror & say “YOU DESERVE THE BEST”.
This video on Donald Dump got nothing to do with today’s post. Sad to see couple of dumbfucks still believing in voter fraud garbage what this orange piece of shit pukes. While claiming to be world’s oldest strongest democracy, America has shown last week that there is a new breed of homegrown terrorists blooming. I don’t believe in religion, race or nationalism. Hope people will rise above all to cherish humanity one day.
People are always divided with opinions towards a happy life. Some believe MONEY is important & some believe LOVE is important. This fight between MONEY & LOVE is so peculiar that i laugh at it whenever this discussion pops up.
What nobody talks about is, both are a painstakingly time consuming slow process till you reach it’s epitome. Most people purposefully lie about both of these two. At the end, you get exactly what you invest. Even a small lie has it’s consequences, Karma keeps a count of it’s course. People fail in MONEY (material growth) or LOVE because of their impatient behaviour or inconsistency. Stay calm, quiet, upfront and focused while you are fetching something purposeful in life.
During my engineering college days I was part of a group with all electronic & rap music enthusiasts. We all planned to form a band together, because that time was all about boy bands or music groups like black eyed peas, linkin park, back street boys, pussycat dolls. There were two lead guitar players in our group, sometimes i still see EMY from electrical engineering branch playing drum, i was good at playing piano/electric keyboard/launchpad, there were two singers with high pitch vocals & it was an amazing combination of 6 young energetic people. The best part is we all failed together in becoming a band. I loved the failure part of it, because we weren’t something unique or better for the same reason. Studying engineering is a tough journey on it’s own, we didn’t put enough time into our music.
Most of the time i see young people peep into an idea which is more like lust towards Money or Fame that they don’t deserve. Today i am talking about something called “Group goals”. I am saying it out of observation & experience. Whenever someone says “I am planning to do something different with friends or in a group, let me assure you that amazing nonsense will never materialize to real world“.
We don’t see the same dream with 5 others. If you aren’t habituated to walk alone towards your GOALS, your GOAL is nothing but a daydream.
Just as a farmer plants seeds and expects a period of harvest, whatever you sow- you will also reap. Whatever you do unto people will eventually be done unto you. When you choose to treat people right, you will also discover they often reciprocate & behave more positively towards you too. It may take time as seeds often take time to grow, but your words/actions/thoughts eventually always yield their harvest. They may return to you as love, money or happiness.
You should therefore be kind & courteous to people irrespective of circumstances. Remember your actions or even your reactions will comeback to you somehow. As you sow, so shall you reap.
I don’t believe in partnerships, strictly talking about work & money/business. Whatever i own in life fully belongs to me & this will never change. That’s the reason i hate unenthusiastic people who think everything will be served on plate without putting enough efforts. Again that’s the only differentiator of what kinda HUMAN BEING you are, what’s your actions towards what you want to achieve!!
If you truly want to achieve something, work your way out & stay away from those who can’t bring their A-game to the table. Unenthusiastic people are toxic for your growth.
My bestie bitch once said; “never ever believe that person who says I LOVE YOU & I AM SORRY at the same time”. She said it not because i was going through some kinda heartbreak, but because she thought “I WAS SPOILED WITH UNNECESSARY ATTENTION”. This post is dedicated to Demi.
All i want to share today is something about generic relationship traits. I always push this idea about leading a “TRUTHFUL LIFE”. Loyal, Legal, Good, True, Beautiful, Gentle, Elegant, Law-abiding, Modest; not many people find these words cool enough. This is a world where people think “baby mama” sounds chic compared to a lawfully wedded wife. I am little old school in terms of visualising a togetherness. That’s the reason I just get bored of those who lie, cheat, hide shit or talk unnecessary trash. I see ton of young people waste their precious years of life stuck in their or other’s irrelevant nonsensical deceptive ways. Heartbreaks are not new, so are cheaters.
Build yourself to be a stable person before entering a relationship, then allow the strongest possible person in your eyes to accompany you. I am talking STRONG in terms of values, morals, mindset & YEAH MONEY TOO. We live in a world where everything has a cost associated to it, there is nothing wrong in being little materialistic. A relationship is not about settling down for someone. It must help you grow stronger physically, emotionally & financially as well. Let people take their sweet time to prove their worth. Exclusivity is earned. You are the most expensive person in your life. 😘ZK.
When somebody talks about my EGO or arrogance without meeting me in person, I can come to only one conclusion that “this person has a poor sense of understanding people”. I am not some celebrity or politician who can be mean for no reason. The best quality about me is “I love being random”. If you are one of my close buddies, one thing you know about my mindset is “I love money but I hate the fame associated to it”. Goal of my life is to make money & stay random. Only thing you can judge about me over internet is my race or my opinions, beyond that rest is your presumptions which is nothing but pure bullshit.
Very few understand your behaviour begins with your ability to accept, accept new information, accepting people & accepting yourself for what you are. We live in a world where people counter others with baseless crap lacking enough juice to back their words. It’s nothing but result of a lazy unenthusiastic mindset. If you are reading this please don’t mind being appreciative to others no matter what goes right or wrong. Being nice costs nothing. And a smile or goodwill you earn in return is priceless. Life is fun, let it be.
Most of the time my friends ask me about which stock to buy so that they can make some easy quick money without taking any risk. And my answer remains same every single time “If you aren’t into it, don’t rush in”.
I am sharing this today because few of these same dumbfucks have started sort of a campaign on my name to list few stocks which will become profitable during this pandemic. “How you can make money in share market investments or What’s your advice on learning something new to upgrade career/salary or How you can write an amazing blog!!” the reason I never talk about these because I don’t believe there is a shortcut to any. It takes time to understand yourself, your qualifications, your skills, your money management skills, your expense habits, your passion & goals. The same I can say for stock market, it takes time to research & track each and every stock before putting money into it. Most of the time it’s like walking on double edged sword, I am talking both profit & loss. Take a timeout. Sit down with yourself for a while. Keep talking to yourself about what you want from yourself. The more answers you find, the better decision making power you can accumulate inside you. That’s where the key to SUCCESS lies. If your way to SUCCESS has something to do with investing in shares/stocks, you will learn that the proper way.
I swear I love money over anything/anyone, & I am brutally honest about it. But there is always a but in everything we are going through. “NEVER DO SOMETHING IF THE SUCCESS IS TOO EASY”, I learnt this lesson after getting my butt kicked twice. Can’t negotiate that in me.
I love the journey of earning & fetching something with time. That’s the reason I don’t believe in lottery or betting. There is nothing called easy success, easy money or easy relationship. If it’s easy, anyone can have it. If anyone can have it, I don’t want it. DESIRES are expensive by nature which makes them DESIRABLE. You have to work & earn it.