Most of us humans suffer from something called “Black and white thinking” also known as polarized thinking. This is an all-or-nothing mindset that things happen either all the way or not at all. When extremes become the norm, you’ll start to think that there are only two outcomes to any situations wild success or terrible failure.
You might start to believe that people are either all good or all bad or that they must be either a loyal friend or an enemy. This cognitive distortion is completely unrealistic. It erases all gray areas or spectrums and leads you to believe things that are often untrue. Reality doesn’t exist in extremes and seeing it like that is unfair to yourself and others.
I don’t believe in partnerships, strictly talking about work & money/business. Whatever i own in life fully belongs to me & this will never change. That’s the reason i hate unenthusiastic people who think everything will be served on plate without putting enough efforts. Again that’s the only differentiator of what kinda HUMAN BEING you are, what’s your actions towards what you want to achieve!!
If you truly want to achieve something, work your way out & stay away from those who can’t bring their A-game to the table. Unenthusiastic people are toxic for your growth.
One thing people have no idea: Testosterone levels are not just responsible for building good muscle mass & better sex drive, it’s a happiness hormone as well. Testosterone plays a major role in mental health. It makes you keep moving forward with a positive mindset.
Try following a healthy lifestyle with little workout & a proper diet. That works towards a natural testosterone rise, which will help you being happy as hell throughout the day with little reasons.
Liars can’t LOVE.
The moment a lie comes out of your mouth, that lie was already seeded in your heart way way before. You planned it. I just feel pity over such insects. Lie/deception/cheating/betrayal, these are not mandatory. You picked that path. You choose it.
Now the consequences are; forget others, even you lost trust in yourself. YES people will not believe in you even if you bark/scream truth someday. No-one wants to deal with a negative mindset individual who has zero credibility with own words. There are some people who talk a lot and do a little less, I mean “Words to Action ratio is bit messed”. But with liars, even their words are utter garbage. They don’t know what they are saying for what, because they are micromanaging a situation in their head just for that while. They have zero intentions towards making anything happen what they say!! They totally feel like “they are successfully fooling the other side”. They forget that “you don’t play the same move twice”, the patterns are already out and the other side isn’t giving a shit.
With lie, you can’t love. Some people just say those 3 words because they are habituated to or they are fond of it. Doesn’t matter it’s you or your partner; once there is a lie, that LOVE is not clean or true. Never expect a liar to LOVE you truly. They failed even before they started.
Toxic people are nothing but people with negative mindset. Because they can’t value/love themselves, they try to damage someone else’s integrity. There is a cure, they need to feed their self respect instead of their ego. It’s easy & everyone deserves happiness.