People come to our live to either appreciate or use us. I say both are accepted, it’s either a beautiful experience or a painful lesson.
After you know WHO DO YOU LOVE, then make sure to find out WHY DO YOU LOVE as well. It’s needed for a long-term. You need a reason to be with someone. There is something you liked unique in your partner, or else why are you with him/her!!
Being in love with a bed-bug is hard no-matter how good is that money/boots/smile or sex. If a person isn’t driven, you can’t be with them on the longer run. A person without a goal is indecisive and they will only bring instability to your life.
Doesn’t matter which side you are in, try to be a better you with a motive. Motive/goal can be anything, being a better student/employee/business person whatever it is. First find your reason to strive/live, other side will celebrate you in LOVE.
Some people get angry/upset because the TRUTH you speak contradicts the LIE they live.
There is nothing called white or black lie. Lie is a Lie & Liars can’t prove anything right. You pollute your core the moment you lie, from where you can’t spread anything positive. That’s one reason liars are indecisive about everything from LIFE to LOVE. They leave themselves juggling between situations or cycles. You will always mark a similar pattern of behaviour in a liar.
Saying it with own experience. The biggest gift I have given myself is MY LITTLE TRUTH. Yes it made me bitter and tough, but I learnt how to stand. If I do anything wrong in my life, I say it proudly before someone else barks about it & face the consequences. If you see anything right/good in me, keep it to yourself or say it to woo me. Either ways, appreciation should only come from other side. We need to keep on cleaning our mess & become a better version of self. Take this one tiny thing from me, Be a true you.
Love means, we constantly improve communication & consistency, practice patience. It also means just leave when things aren’t equal anymore.
6 signs you aren’t in LOVE:
1. You moved things fast with your partner.
Infatuations thrive on speed, while LOVE takes time to develop. Infatuations live in illusion. Love can survive reality. When you quickly jump into a relationship with someone, you base it off your dreams more than whose really in front of you. Common examples are; thinking about a future with them, lusting after some legit emotions or obsessing about them for anything in your head. All of these are done after months and years of knowing them, that you just slipped/skipped.
2. You expect them to be flawless.
And you get angry or upset over them when you see their true colours. Do you believe in soulmates or fate? It sounds good in theory. But we all know infatuations also need perfection to survive. We need our partners to be consistently well dressed, good with their words or impressive with their accomplishments, meantime you are not giving them space to be honest. Love on the other hand is grounded. When you love someone, you accept their imperfections, you work through the bad and enjoy the good together.
3. You are not comfortable enough around them. Who hasn’t felt self-conscious about saying the wrong thing or making bad decisions/impressions? But when you truly fall in love with someone, that’s when you can let loose and stop caring so much. Those who have a strong sense of love and belonging are more open to vulnerability. Whereas those who feel disconnected with their partners consistently build their walls up. When you don’t share your emotions and struggles nor secrets with someone, you haven’t fully loved.
4. You become more distant.
It’s normal for passion to intensify initially only to taper off, which isn’t gonna help you into a steady relationship. But two people in love will still want to be around each other frequently. That’s another reason people in love plan a life together equally over indulging in rest activities. If you find yourself wanting to get away from your partner more and more these days, often because you’d rather go hang out with your friends or family or cat/dog, then something’s up.
5. Your mind is elsewhere.
With mind soon your heart also follows the same route. Partners who are in love tend to maintain a focus on their counterparts. When you notice the little things about them or express concerns when the two of you run into conflict, it shows you care for them. If you avoid those tough conversations or slip away from arguments, you also stop emphasizing their importance in your life.
6. You developed anxiety.
Have you been experiencing digestive problems or have trouble sleeping/over sleeping? Anxiety can show in this bodily disfunction. You might have something you need to get off your chest and dread how to break the news off to your partner. Remember you can only run away from the truth for so long before it catches upto you.
Forcing LOVE when it’s absent will only hurt the two of you. Both of you deserve to find love elsewhere if it can’t be found in your relationship.
Where do you think you stand on your feelings? Dig deeper, learn yourself with little Truth and self evaluation.
You don’t change your destiny, you live it.
Be more concerned about your CHARACTER over your REPUTATION. It’s you who is facing yourself 24/7 live. Never try to think about how people pursue you, be a TRUE you.
People or Things, both aren’t gonna stand the test of time. In case you want to live HAPPILY, tie yourself to a GOAL.
Recent news suggests, Apple’s sales & revenue aren’t the same. & They will not remain the same. Apple can say anything as a counter, the truth is out. Apple isn’t actually declining right now, it’s just not growing anymore. Which is an pretty alarming situation for a consumer electronics company. They can blame China or any other such emerging markets. As a brand they are allowed to.
Furthermore let’s dig in..
Whenever i hear or see such pleas in their press releases by any brand. It just screams a cover up. Let em count one by one right now. It took only 4 years for Samsung to be the biggest smartphone brand to less than 1% market share in China. Apple now blaming trade war between China-USA & lower iPhones sale in China for it’s poor stock price. They even went further projecting a lesser revenue growth for first quarter of 2019. CEO Tim Cook wrote a nice letter to all investors. This is just a start of a burn. Being such a big cash-cow, they have enough resources to burn.
When you are a consumer electronics brand, you can’t slap your premium over the consumer always. Apple’s 67% revenue is generated from IPhone sales. I don’t know how they will do it. In case Apple really wants to survive as a brand of this century, they need to come up with the SE line up as they left. They badly need that one sub 4-500 dollar product in their catalogue once again. That’s the only thing, which will allow them to hover again towards that new growth chart in terms of acquiring new customers to the Apple-ecosystem.
Problems are many. Strategies need to be figured out as the time remains key.
What’s actually affecting Apple is something called innovation!! Actually lack of innovation. There is no such notable difference between it’s previous generation iPhones to current ones since iPhone 5S. If you are using iOS 12 in a iPhone SE or iPhone XS, there is hardly much to discuss about the user experience between both. I may rather suggest touch ID over face ID, because that works bang on each time. They launched iOS 13 just before a day & now there is a list of unsupported Apple products including the same amount of unhappy customers with outdated devices in their hand who will not receive the latest software update. They have to deal with tons of electronic waste under their recycling program. I just hope all works for the better.
I don’t have any love or hate towards APPLE as a brand, I am just saying everything from a investor’s point of view.
Words must match your behaviour. What you meant is irrelevant. Emotional accountability, more depth, less obsession with image; all these three will drive you towards success & happiness.