Being comfortable in your skin is good, being lazy isn’t. Being aware of your desires is good, killing them continuously in the name of compromise isn’t good. Being true to yourself & others is a must no matter you hurt people for that same reason. While understanding all what I mentioned, also remember “Sometimes the comfort of old feelings kill the opportunity of something amazing new, never ever let that happen”.
All I am talking about are feelings, never hold yourself back with unspoken words because they create havoc & heaviness inside making you a bitter person. Life is easy, let it be.