Lying may be more common than you think. One study found that 40% of adults lie at least once in a day, usually in small ways. And even though some people lie more or less than others, a lie is a lie. So how do you navigate a world full of liars when you value honesty and integrity. Here are two major traits of genuinely honest people so you can decide whether you or someone in your life is truly a honest person:
1. They have a calm yet strong speaking voice. One of the easiest telltale signs of lying is an aggressive voice when you catch someone in a lie, they’ll often raise their voice in defense as a way to establish power. Honest people rarely become defensive when they’re asked questions, even if those questions seem accusatory in nature. When an honest person replies, their tone of voice is calm and consistent since there is no possible way they’ll be found out. They have nothing to worry about. There is no reason to lie or make up a story. There’s nothing to hide.
2. Honest people come across as rude sometimes. They are less concerned with catering to your feelings. They would rather tell you a truth that hurts then let you believe a lie that makes you feel good about yourself. They aren’t afraid to tell the truth, even if it means they’ll come across as rude or harsh. Because of this fact you might think an honest person is mean sometimes. If you’re not ready for the raw unadulterated truth, then don’t ask an honest person. They’re Not going to sugarcoat a situation or pretend that everything is OK. When it isn’t OK, they’ll present the facts and give their personal opinions even if it’s not what you want to hear. If you’ve ever received tough information from an honest person know that their intent is not malice, It’s HONESTY.
In this post i am talking about action of collective efforts to create a collective effect in all aspects. It’s true that you will eventually reap what you sow, but we should also realise that our individual decisions & actions become our eventual contribution to society. All of our intention & action create massive energy that creates major effects for all. This energy is eventually transmitted into our society and the world at large. So make sure your action creates value & inspiration to others. Make concious effort to be good to people. Pursue your goals and passion step by step. Lead by example.
Whether you believe in Karma or not, I usually talk about fundamental principles of life which can help you be a better human. I hope your parents, friends, society and even your God expects that from you. To live a life of impact you genuinely desire mastering your skills and knowledge about gratitude, effort, action, selflessness & happiness. They all combined will help you reach a life of fulfillment. The best reward is the one that contributes to the whole.
Most people are so random that you can literally term them “dumb” or “stupid” with almost everything. It’s nothing but an unenthusiastic lazy mindset which functions without motive. They are unaware of what to expect from themselves. Fix your motive before you act, not just act but even before you speak. Humans are that kinda crazy who catch the smallest possible negative & present it as a ginormous pile of rubbish. When you notice a problem in yourself, work towards removing it.
You must have heard or seen this before “Actions must match words”, that’s true. Be cautious about it. But even before that’s sorted, never forget to sort your motive because it takes a lot of time to figure out where you are heading with your motive towards what you desire. Every action must be prompted by a motive. (Not my words).
I receive ton of thirsty texts, calls, dms, snaps every single day. Not proud of it because i am not proud of the body count streak i was into for a long long time. When i say “now my bank account is my boo”, i really really mean my words. People chase you thinking they might get a chance to experience the same exciting life that you live, that’s all. I am not against it. Basically that’s how we humans usually approach relationships & materials. We always desire something that’s beyond our reach/budget.
In relationships that same thing causes toxicity, any kind of relationships i mean, friends, family or romantic equations as well. Choose people with whom you can vibe & stick together for a long long time without getting bored of all generic unenthusiastic human traits. Chasing someone is not worth it, it drains energy resulting nothing. Choose those who choose you.
Being a HUMAN we are blessed with enormous amount of skills & talents. We explore few more than the rest, but still we all are capable of achieving something amazing. Keep asking yourself “What’s your accomplishments & what should have been your accomplishments!?!” If answers to both are different, you still got a lot to do & move that ass towards your work till you serve your purpose.
Measure yourself by what you should have accomplished with your abilities.
My posts are scheduled a month advance, this song got nothing to do with it. It’s just that I am a creature who wakes up to different songs buzzing in head looking at my mood. Shared it because TAP is dancing to it while baking chicken drumsticks & coconut cream egg pudding, caesar salad, mushroom soup for dinner.😝🤣
Be humble & cultivate humility towards every HUMAN you come in touch with.
(The only suggestion I will give myself if I could have met myself 10 years back.)
DO NEW MISTAKES. That makes us more HUMAN. Mistakes are not wrong, not learning the lesson from it is WRONG.
Be Human. Do different mistakes.😜
It took me plenty of courage & strong will-power to become a human from a disastrous monster on the run. I know, I am True to myself & everyone else. I dreamed a life without lies, all who fit there are onboard already.
Yes I fail sometimes. Failure is so human in nature. I am talking in terms of business/money perspective. But I never put good money/experience on bad money/experience once again.