I don’t know what “LOOKING COOL” means. The coolest guy of my high school works as a car garage mechanic now a days.
No matter how much it hurts, keep pushing yourself towards positive changes. You will heal amazingly & reach places you never been. Learn new things & exit your comfort zone. That’s how you REMAIN COOL & CONFIDENT.
Just because I allow, stop asking shit about my past. I was badly madly in LOVE once, just once. I did that mistake. I escaped it after a huge struggle inside my own head/heart. I am the one who ended it just for ending it. It was a toxic vicious cycle. That relationship taught me; I am a way better person being single & my TRUTH is my treasure. By breaking free, I honestly walked towards my happiness. If you know me; I still mourn my dog’s demise, two days after that date I celebrate someone’s death. It made me heartless, tough & rational. I used to take long time trusting people, now I have trust issues.
I hope I answered it truthfully. It will be much better if you stop asking me about something I wanna heal & halt.
Whenever you think a relationship isn’t working; talk about it to your partner. If it still looks impossible to make it, get a closure. Heal your heart, remove all negativity that your other person left inside you. People heal with their own sweet time, it may take 3-4 months to some & some people need years. Remove all those memories whatever you had. Then think about allowing another person to come close. That’s how you enter or leave relationships.
Falling in LOVE with someone is easy. Saying those 3 bullshit words are even more easy. Keeping those promises you made takes a lifetime to fulfill.
You fall in LOVE once & rest you do is compare that to whoever approaches next. Heal yourself before you drill yourself.
When you think about someone a lot, it means they are thinking about you first.
This has no psychic bullshit behind it. It’s all about physics, we live in a quantum realm & it’s more of a mechanical effect surrounding energy particle transportation.