The biggest hurdle on your way to happiness is self-loathing. Self-loathing is very similar to insecurity. And if you experience it, know that you’re not alone. Almost everyone experiences some form of self-hate at one time or another. It’s the feeling you are not enough, unworthy or undeserving of the good things in life, like love and happiness. The truth is that, everyone deserves love and happiness. But we’re often taught the opposite. It may arise from a history of abuse, cultural or social messages or being excluded.
Bad relationships, failures and many other different experiences can lead you to believe that, there is something inherently wrong with you. Well, there isn’t and self-loathing will only bring you down even if you’ve made decisions that you’re not proud of. You can learn from your mistakes, hating yourself over them will not do you any good. Let go of your self-loathing. It’s a barrier to your happiness. And you do deserve to be happy.
My equation with my people always remains one on one. I appreciate that exchange of attention & affection exact same way. And I love optimistic/enthusiastic people who believe in learning new skills & material growth associated to it. Basically those who don’t spend/waste 3-hours in window shopping or arranging closet. Time is more precious than money, and my 1-hour costs little higher compared to random crowd. If i feel like my time is being wasted, i simply snap out with a thought “I would rather invest that time somewhere else which can yield some mojo or mula”. Now talking about the bad part, there are two reasons i never talk about someone to somebody else under any good or bad circumstances:
1. Backbiting is something i can never ever understand. If i have anything against you in my head or heart, either i have told you bluntly or you are already in my block list.
2. If you have done anything to earn my hate or somehow you lost your respect in my eyes, i consider you dead. And nobody actually likes talking about dead morons.
If we aren’t talking at least once in a week, your LOVE or HATE matters nothing to me. I will keep living the banter life.
(I am seeing backbiting has become a real good timepass for few in this pandemic/lockdown situation. Those who talk behind are BEHIND for a reason.)
In short; not just bestfriends, Demi is the broccoli of my meal. Everyone knows one edible thing I hate is BROCCOLI, but I am eating 2 minutes microwaved broccoli in my each meal since ages.
Please don’t take shots if you aren’t single and i consider those single who have healed their heart from past mess while raising own standards. It takes few months to work on yourself. Don’t be a desperate moron.
People come with past baggages & bunch of lies. I can unmask you in a minute & you will regret that. My intuition & morals are way stronger compared to your loose trousers, I never mess with TRUTH.
Either you are talking with me or talking/thinking about me, I am there in your head anyways. Your love is welcome & your hate is more than welcome.
Doesn’t matter you are talking good or bad about me, you are talking about me & I am loving it. I am a man of disciplines. Even when I play, I have a standard. There is a reason behind your fear or hate towards me; you know I am truthfully right with my ways, always.
I have seen such friends turned frenemies who liked me while I was hustling, when I reached somewhere close to my goals they started hating me.
I accept your like to my heart & hate to my ass.
If you feel neglected/rejected by me; please stop thinking that way, it’s just that I have no time for bullshit.
LOVE or HATE, both are a 2 way interaction. I can’t fight. That’s why I don’t hate, I just move on from any kinda mess silently.
Bad guy. No, I am & I will always be the dominant BAD BOY of the block. Life has thrown me all sorts of challenges, that expression on my face talks rest. From illegal street fights & racings to owning few tiny businesses to feed my needs, all happened in just few years. I have crossed all paths. Doesn’t matter you hate or admire me, I do me. I will walk my path to happiness & stability with Truth.
Zero fucks on sale.💪