Never try to fix yourself, you are not broken. You are just beautiful. Instead of that fixing, do the true right things from now for better positive outcome for your future.
No, LOVE has nothing to do with finances or charisma of the other side. But, you already know what’s your comfort zone/future goals & who can be worth it to share that same way!!
Just like you can’t use that same smartphone in your hand for more than 2-3 years, you want to upgrade it even if you are using it. Life is just like that. It needs a upgrade time to time. See your parents, how many times you changed your home/TV/location/furniture/whatever. Life is exactly like that. It needs upgrades not just monetarily, it needs upgrades in every aspect. You need your emotional growth & qualifications/skills/work too need the same.
If you aren’t seeing the same in your partner, don’t let him/her be your LIFE PARTNER. Someday you will surely lose your attraction/passion/mojo towards that person if they are not driven towards a better life. LOVE is a big word. Don’t misuse it, use it when you find your forever or else go happy fuck around for a while. Having tons of sex with multiple partners is OK if your moral allows you & you get that much attention. Misusing that word LOVE to gain little passion is not OK, it will tear you down slowly.
Ask yourself how long did you let that LOVE cook inside you, ask yourself what’s gonna be the result when time tests you with good or bad situations!! BE TRUE to yourself first. Time heals all when intentions are true in head/heart & your mouth speaks the same.
The best way to predict your future is; first check the predictions, then rectify/create it your way.💪
I am not afraid of the FUTURE, afraid of past bullshit repeating again.
Love means, we constantly improve communication & consistency, practice patience. It also means just leave when things aren’t equal anymore.
6 signs you aren’t in LOVE:
1. You moved things fast with your partner.
Infatuations thrive on speed, while LOVE takes time to develop. Infatuations live in illusion. Love can survive reality. When you quickly jump into a relationship with someone, you base it off your dreams more than whose really in front of you. Common examples are; thinking about a future with them, lusting after some legit emotions or obsessing about them for anything in your head. All of these are done after months and years of knowing them, that you just slipped/skipped.
2. You expect them to be flawless.
And you get angry or upset over them when you see their true colours. Do you believe in soulmates or fate? It sounds good in theory. But we all know infatuations also need perfection to survive. We need our partners to be consistently well dressed, good with their words or impressive with their accomplishments, meantime you are not giving them space to be honest. Love on the other hand is grounded. When you love someone, you accept their imperfections, you work through the bad and enjoy the good together.
3. You are not comfortable enough around them. Who hasn’t felt self-conscious about saying the wrong thing or making bad decisions/impressions? But when you truly fall in love with someone, that’s when you can let loose and stop caring so much. Those who have a strong sense of love and belonging are more open to vulnerability. Whereas those who feel disconnected with their partners consistently build their walls up. When you don’t share your emotions and struggles nor secrets with someone, you haven’t fully loved.
4. You become more distant.
It’s normal for passion to intensify initially only to taper off, which isn’t gonna help you into a steady relationship. But two people in love will still want to be around each other frequently. That’s another reason people in love plan a life together equally over indulging in rest activities. If you find yourself wanting to get away from your partner more and more these days, often because you’d rather go hang out with your friends or family or cat/dog, then something’s up.
5. Your mind is elsewhere.
With mind soon your heart also follows the same route. Partners who are in love tend to maintain a focus on their counterparts. When you notice the little things about them or express concerns when the two of you run into conflict, it shows you care for them. If you avoid those tough conversations or slip away from arguments, you also stop emphasizing their importance in your life.
6. You developed anxiety.
Have you been experiencing digestive problems or have trouble sleeping/over sleeping? Anxiety can show in this bodily disfunction. You might have something you need to get off your chest and dread how to break the news off to your partner. Remember you can only run away from the truth for so long before it catches upto you.
Forcing LOVE when it’s absent will only hurt the two of you. Both of you deserve to find love elsewhere if it can’t be found in your relationship.
Where do you think you stand on your feelings? Dig deeper, learn yourself with little Truth and self evaluation.
There will always be some people who are left in past. Reason: YOUR FUTURE DEMANDS SOMETHING BETTER.
Yeah. Your life, relationship, career path & day-to-day growth all are pre-decided. Tarot cards do speak about the positive/negative energy with what’s the outcome. Sometimes my friends ask me to read their relationship issues & financial investment matters. Stock market investments things, I can say looking at my phone. But relationship things are shitty, I don’t want to be associated in other’s bullshit while dealing with mine.
People who live with their TRUTH have a strong intuition to build a better life. They need shit nothing to worry about future.
Do something, make sure your FUTURE will be carved in history someday.
Sharing this chat to thank DEMI for being there whenever I needed a shoulder for support. But read next lines, it’s about finding the right like minded people who vibe positivity. COMMUNICATION is the key to keep every relationship alive, doesn’t matter love/friendship/family.
Sometimes people get jealous or they feel intimidated looking at our friendship. The equation we have with each other is way beyond you can even imagine to get with your lover/life partner/husband/wife.
The key is, we have dropped our guards down & there is no ego in between us. We are wild & open enough to talk anything or everything we want. Doesn’t matter how you see it, it’s friendship which bloomed to a closeness equivalent to a family. The distance between us goes up or down, but the equation always remains the same. I am not ashamed to share that “Yes I am the one with little strength & Truth, I do get the chance for a power play & each time my friends show me the path to get grounded”. When I am talking about friendship here, it’s not just two people in the conversation. There is a group of 8, we never got separated from each other. We all know what’s stored for us in future, all are alligning for the better.
Life gives everyone chances to win. It’s your mind which is clinged to negativity & stopping you from shine. Stay positive & open to see the bright side of everything you have or you want. Life is easy as it sounds.