Two major discomforting traits of most people; EXCESSIVE PRIDE & INSECURITY. Let’s talk about both little bit. Purpose is to identify & get rid of these ASAP, i am talking this to both reader & writer.
Excessive pride. Pride isn’t necessarily a terrible thing. It can bring you confidence and self-assurance which are two great qualities that can help you lead a happy life. However pride can also cause destruction through overconfidence and resistance to learning. If your pride is extreme, it can ruin your personal and professional relationships. It’s not uncommon for people to let their pride prevent them from acknowledging their mistakes and to learn from them whether it’s a project at the office or an argument with a friend. It’s essential to keep your pride in check and get rid of any excess that is no longer serving you.
Insecurity. Insecurity has no benefits, it often arises from judgment or criticism of yourself and other people. It causes chronic unhappiness and becomes a burden on your life. As long as you are the most honest and authentic version of yourself, no one has the right to judge you for it and that goes for you too. There is nothing wrong with living your life the way you want to live. If self-doubt is something you picked up along the way and it’s something you can drop whenever you choose. Your friends and family love you for you. When you doubt their respect to faction or acceptance, you are doing a disservice not only to yourself but to your loved ones as well.
The number one reason people fail in life is because they listen to friends, family and neighbours.
– Napoleon Hill
Stop taking things personally. We all are collateral damage to somebody else’s bad decision. You can apply it to all scenarios of life related to love, job, money or family. Take a chill. Don’t be too sensitive. No-one is mean to you. You are incredibly amazing as a true you.
Love your family. Love your goals. Rest are assholes.
You hear me saying “Jai Shri Ram” to family & few friends, that’s how we greet each other. What you don’t know is; that was my ancestor’s war-cry at some point in history.
The only message I wanna spread today. Enjoy the festival of lights with your friends & family. This is the day when TRUTH/POSITIVITY marked it’s win over LIE/DARKNESS. Have amazing days ahead.
Do you know why people try to control someone or behave controling?
Because, they can’t control their own shit and they are not in the right vibration to control their own emotions. That’s why they try to control you. They don’t like your happiness & appreciation you receive. They always try to stop you frequently with different approach. In short, you are dealing a wishy washy real dickhead.
Guard yourself first. Help them understand life has more to offer. When you know you are not going towards a right direction, it’s better to take help or consult friends/family/whom you believe. Life is about sharing goodness & happiness. People who plan dorky things need to find themselves at right place before they vibe right.
I love my friends. One reason, our trust is deeper than the word DEEP. Yes, we are a family. Congratulations brother, I don’t know the happiness of being a dad . But, I love it when friends find happiness within family or in expending their family.
A big welcome to Egan from Tap.💪
“I have seen so much goodness in you that I can’t accept anything bad about you.”
A see off line by a close fella from my high school days. How can’t I be happy when people are pouring affection on me? In case you are connected to me, just keep on reading my last few posts to understand who said this line. Some friends became family to me way way back, I am still finding ways of restitution.
18 hours of travel for a 11 hour trip to home. Was it worth it?
Completely YES. I saw my mum smile.