It’s dumb to believe that your best days are behind you. When we’re young, It’s common to hear older people tell us that we’re living the best days of our lives. Although that may be true for them, It doesn’t have to be true for you. When great things happen in our lives, It’s normal to feel bored or to be underwhelmed by the events that came after, maybe you spend a year abroad or experience the best day of your life. And once you return to reality, everything pales in comparison. This remarkable memory might be in your past.
But surely there are more great things still to come. If you want to be happier, drop the belief that your past will always be better than the future. Looking forward to what’s to come will permit those things to arrive. As i always say, TOMORROW IS ALWAYS AN UPGRADE TO OUR TODAY.
Few lines i wanna talk about toxic people. There will always be toxic people but they don’t need to be in your life. Although it may be easy to become stuck in a pattern where you pour your emotional energy and attention into a person you despise. Letting go of this malicious attachment will reduce stress and increase happiness. Imagine if you transformed all the negative energy you give an enemy into positive energy that you give to yourself and your loved ones. Your life would become even more full of experiences and emotions surrounding the people who truly matter in your life.
Getting rid of toxic people will make more room for happiness. Tap OUT..🤗
This post continues with yesterday’s topic on “How comfort zone is killing us from within!!”. Your ability to learn is limited. Once the human brain knows how to do something, It becomes an automated task. And when this happens, the areas in your brain responsible for learning essentially cease working. This means familiarity directly translates to stagnation and unfamiliarity equals learning when you prioritize knowledge and growth. You’ll find that your life is full of abilities & capabilities. You don’t know you have all you need to unlock your skills & step out of comfortability.
Imagine this as an example, every year you go on vacation. You go to the same place at the same time of year. You always stay in the same hotel where you know you have been, the same area, the restaurants and even same people, this familiar vacation spot is in your comfort zone. And even though it’s a nice time, you don’t learn anything new when you visit. Now again imagine taking a vacation to a new city or even an entirely new country. You’ll find yourself inspired to learn new words in a new language, understand different customs and check out a map while you’re there. You’ll have fresh and unexpected experiences that challenge you on this vacation.
Newness and unfamiliarity breed knowledge about yourself and the world around you. When you leave your comfort zone, boundaries of what you can and want to experience expand past what you know with a larger perspective. You’ll gain a newfound sense of motivation to do to experience and understand new things. Escaping comfort zone is the most exciting thing you can gift yourself. Wish almighty bless us all with healing, health, happiness, love, joy, peace & prosperity. Happy New Year.🤗 Tap OUT..😘
I receive ton of thirsty texts, calls, dms, snaps every single day. Not proud of it because i am not proud of the body count streak i was into for a long long time. When i say “now my bank account is my boo”, i really really mean my words. People chase you thinking they might get a chance to experience the same exciting life that you live, that’s all. I am not against it. Basically that’s how we humans usually approach relationships & materials. We always desire something that’s beyond our reach/budget.
In relationships that same thing causes toxicity, any kind of relationships i mean, friends, family or romantic equations as well. Choose people with whom you can vibe & stick together for a long long time without getting bored of all generic unenthusiastic human traits. Chasing someone is not worth it, it drains energy resulting nothing. Choose those who choose you.
Yes waiting is difficult, but not as hard as regret. There are moments in life we want to explore or achieve something. If you want something, go get it. It’s not just some rant on giving up on your goals, i am talking about EXPERIENCES.
It’s pouring outside like crazy & weather/room temperature is in single digit celsius. While browsing random TV channels in my hotel at 2am, accidentally got hit by FOX news. I found out two new things that night; Donald Trump is the best president of USA ever & my dick is little over 3-feet long. Trust me, Both True.