You can not think of two things at the same time. In your quest for improvement, it’s vital that you concentrate on the things that truly matter. Your focus helps you place your attention on those values that will primarily assist you in attaining the heights you seek. Focusing on postive emotions, development & goals will leave you with no time to focus on negative things.
When you find yourself in a not so pleasent circumstance, always look on the brighter side. It might be a difficult thing to do when you form the habit of recognising the lessons in negative events. You will learn from these experiences & get even better. FOCUS on the positive side of life while FOCUSING on one prime meaningful thing at a time.
A relationship is never about a right or wrong person. We encounter both good and bad people in our life. But choices depend on our taste to pick & choose with whom we can vibe. Sometimes we even allow & entertain something/someone that never aligns with our values. All of these till we understand, it’s nothing but getting along with someone’s goodness & consistent approach. Actually consistent approach towards life in general.
Back to first line once again; it’s not about right or wrong, it’s all about whether someone is TRUTHFUL no matter being good or bad and whether that person is consistent!! A TRUTHFUL CONSISTENT person is a lifelong turn on.
Everything that you do is somehow connected. The past, present & the future all are connected. Your past & present hold significant sway over your FUTURE. You should realise that “no one step” will suddenly shoot you into the future of your dreams. Every single step you have ever taken and the ones you take right now are equally important. Your future is actually culmination of your previous choices & steps. So all of them count.
Therefore, make an effort to take steps which are consistent with your destination. Only that way you can get there. That’s how you reach/fetch GOALS. (Not my words).
There are liars, cheaters, thieves, criminals, Donald Trump & all sort of other deceptive people, all have one thing in common is their “LIE”. Basically all are different degree of LIARS. On the other hand there is also another set of equally lackluster group of folks known as “INCONSISTENT PEOPLE”. And i swear they are even more worse compared to LIARS. Liars are a turn off, but it takes a little time to catch their lies. But inconsistent people are way more prominent in their part of nonsense, you can catch their INCONSISTENCY very next moment. Another funny part, most LIARS are INCONSISTENT by nature.
My post was to make everyone aware of any INCONSISTENT person around. You don’t need to confront them, just get rid of them. Right people vibe & match your energy, then stick for a long run no matter what’s your taste or status!! Liars will never connect to this school of thought. Truth is trust. Be blunt to block any inconsistent person from life, that’s the best gift you can give yourself before 2020 is over. Still another month away, let’s end it on a good note.
(This paragraph has nothing to do with the post above. We are slowly but surely recovering from this pandemic. I wish/hope everyone is taking care of own health and happiness. Today i am not around family or my same set of friends that i have spent previous few amazing years, i am talking about geographical distance here. This is the time we used to share some warmth, have some nice sugery/greasy yummy food & create few good memories meanwhile. I didn’t host any kinda party this year because of COVID-19, that money was meant to be spent for my people. So many things didn’t go as planned. What breaks my heart is those people whose lives & livelihood got effected. Went to a nearby homeless shelter today asking whether i can donate some sweatshirts/jackets/blankets because it’s almost winter. They replied, there is enough winter clothes available except some winter woolen socks because they always run short. I bought socks for everyone in that homeless shelter & i wasn’t even able to spend the whole thanksgiving dinner money. Only message i wanted to share here; YES we all are going through a tough time. Do your tiny bit towards the needy even if you want to flex/share it in your instagram or YouTube. There is nothing wrong is spreading the right. HAPPY THANKSGIVING.)
Most people are so random that you can literally term them “dumb” or “stupid” with almost everything. It’s nothing but an unenthusiastic lazy mindset which functions without motive. They are unaware of what to expect from themselves. Fix your motive before you act, not just act but even before you speak. Humans are that kinda crazy who catch the smallest possible negative & present it as a ginormous pile of rubbish. When you notice a problem in yourself, work towards removing it.
You must have heard or seen this before “Actions must match words”, that’s true. Be cautious about it. But even before that’s sorted, never forget to sort your motive because it takes a lot of time to figure out where you are heading with your motive towards what you desire. Every action must be prompted by a motive. (Not my words).