When light goes out, you understand value of LIGHT. Exactly when you are going through a painful phase in life, you must understand the importance of LIGHT & DARKNESS both. Pain will be there, you have to burn it as fuel to move ahead in your journey. But first decide whether you are moving through darkness or darkness is moving through you.
Acknowledge that “Nothing happens to you, it’s actually happening for you”. Some dark phases in life push us towards seeing our bright side.