Sometimes people suffer because of impotent goals, not because of laziness. The path towards success starts from being determined & decisive. If you can do something once in a while & relax after that, then you are just not attractive enough to entertain a beautiful life. You can blame god or fate for not showing you the right path. And fate/god is busy helping an aspiring persistent person who can stand up to it’s purpose at right time.
“DETERMINED, DECISIVE, TRUTHFUL, PERSISTENT, PUNCTUAL” in my dictionary they all sound sexy.