Small wallet is not the problem, it’s small mindset which holds you back.
Time decides who you meet in life. Your heart decides who you want in life. And your behaviour decides who stays in your life.
In my case I am married to my bank account & we share an amazing togetherness. Next I want my boss TAP to stop being so bossy & let me retire within next 2-3 years, so that I can woo & hook up with a sassy bitch/boo/angel for next 2-300 years. Yeah I want 80-90 babies as well. ZK.😜
Demi challenged me in CMU group to share two pick-up lines close to my heart. (Those who don’t know, Demi is my bestie since past 250 years). Btw who stores pick-up lines in heart!! These two are in my head though:
1. Your breath smells amazing, gimme some.
(Used by Demi on me during prom. And thanks to almighty, never dated this half blonde dumb bitch.😝)
2. Not sure whether it’s your smile or booty, 2 out of 4 cheeks are definitely working.
(That’s my favourite pick-up line. Always works on latinas, pardon me for going little racial. Not sure how many times I have misused this one).
Conditions & Situations will never be just right. Certain times you are allowed to wait till factors are favorable, but that mustn’t delay your actions. Find your purpose & set GOALS. One step at a time & you will reach destination if your movement is forward no matter how slow you are moving.
Weak attitude always results weak character. To figure out what’s your attitude with life, keep yourself bound to two ways “EITHER LIVE LIKE A KING OR WHO THE FUCK IS A KING!!”. This attitude will take you to places. Never run behind reputation or popularity, they will fade. CHARACTER will remain with you till you die. That’s the reason you can’t copy character, you have to hammer & forge yourself into one.
My ancestors belong to the land of ASHOKA, Maurya dynasty. Such sayings still exist, it’s us humans who usually forget our values. At the end “YOUR CHARACTER CONTROLS YOUR MIND’S CREATION”. A strong CHARACTER with sorted ATTITUDE is the goal. That’s all.
Discipline is when you do what needs to be done, even if you are in no mood. That’s the reason it’s not the work which is hard, it’s DISCIPLINE.
(Let me answer whether I am a disciplined person!? I am typing this after baking an amazing cheesecake at 9.25PM on Friday, waiting for the clock to reach 12AM so that I can eat two slices. Waiting because Saturday & Sunday are my cheat days. Now you know the answer.)
If you are active & feeling “How fast/busy life is!!”, I swear there is no better feeling than that. Learn to be happy with it. But if you are pretending being busy because you are just lazy, you too know you are nothing but just another boring person. Being optimistic is good, but that matters nothing without being real.
Problem in most people is, they are ok being OK towards everything wrong with own life. How can you value someone when he/she isn’t valuing him/herself!?!
Never judge someone till you walk in their shoes. Never prioritise people above you because everything/everyone is an option in this materialistic world. After you are sure about previous two lines; Never become too selfish with own ways because there are always two sides of every story.
If you know me personally or you follow what I post in this blog, hopefully you already know there are two kinds of people I hate the most “SMOKERS & LIARS”. Smokers are those people who don’t give a shit about their own health or their family’s health while neglecting the fact “SECOND HAND SMOKING is dangerous as well”. The funniest part is dumbfucks who smoke weed to look/feel cool or calm, there are tons of reasearch yet to be done to prove whether marijuana is addictive or harmful to health.
Let me share an amazing incident that happened before this pandemic. It’s about a friend who came for a late night party & started smoking weed in my balcony. I showed her my gate while explaining “how to go out of my apartment right away during a cold chilly weather” & stopped talking to her even after receiving 80-90 sorry/sorrow filled texts. First it’s illegal to smoke weed where I live, second I might have done the same even if it’s a stupid cigarette. This same person started countering my aggressive opinion against weed/smoking by saying: “Even your favourite Elon Musk smoked weed on camera & everyone smokes weed now a days”. My response to that; “please give me that list of everyone, so that I can stay away from every piece of shit in that everyone’s list. Elon Musk owns couple billion dollars & also running 5-6 most ridiculously successful companies. Where are yours??!”
Here’s a video by vice explaining how/why illegal weed money goes to all sorts of crime & in few cases straight towards terrorism.
Takeaway; a person with loose morals & cheap mentality will always find it’s way to shit from mouth no matter how badly you want them to behave.
Either write something worth reading or do something worth writing.
– Benjamin Franklin.
Love those who love you. Your problems are yours & just yours. When you are feeling low, remember there are lot many people in this world who are in way worse situation compared to yours. Helping others is just another way to help yourself & feel fulfilled with life. And LOVE can’t hurt you so don’t mind exploring, those who hurt you aren’t your people. Few people will pretend to care, there are fake people with hidden agendas. Emotions are temporary & sometimes you just stop wanting such people. Being an adult is fun if you can enjoy life & have fun like kids.
Your life is in your control. Your destiny is in your control. Can’t say the same for your FATE.
Mama said. OBEYED.